Perhaps you have a fantasy about putting a naughty girl across your lap and spanking her bottom hard? Teaching her a lesson with a cane, strap, belt, paddle or whip? Or have you been daydreaming about keeping that lazy secretary of yours in the office after hours for some discipline and seeing JUST how badly she wants to keep that job?
Maybe you have a fantasy involving keeping a girl bound tightly with ropes whilst you tickle and tease her, torturing her with pleasure and pain, playing with her senses?
Dominant men and women have been the centre of my sexual fantasising since my earliest memories, long before Anastasia Steele met Christian Grey. Though I have developed a strong desire to dominate in the last 5 years, I will never stop craving the opportunity to sink to my knees and relinquish control to a lover who knows how to handle me.
To me, submission is a million miles away from passivity and powerlessness…it makes me feel powerful to create a scene with someone dominant according to their wishes and desires, and then make the magic happen.
The submissive roleplay characters I like to inhabit are varied: in turns a compliant and obedient slave, a fearful and frightened damsel in distress, a struggling indignant brat, a spoilt daddy’s girl, a wanton slut. I have a skill for identifying the right vibe for both of us and playing that part to perfection. I know that attire matters: the perfect lingerie set, the white panties, the authentic uniform, the tightest secretary skirt.
No matter the character, my favourite activities have the same powerful effect on my body – spanking, being restrained, being gagged and blindfolded, being verbally admonished and spoken down to, being on display and being watched. I long to serve somebody, worship their body. I’m a bad, bad girl and I need to be corrected.
A streak of defiance…
If your hottest fantasies involve the submissive woman turning the tables (or the dominant receiving her comeuppance!) then we can incorporate a switch into the power play. I am a skilled domme with both caring and sadistic inclinations – I like to keep it adaptable according to your needs.
Ultimately, when I put your across my lap for a spanking, you can rest assured that I know how every blow feels. I taste power strongest when it is being literally exchanged, handed between us in trust. Read more about my domme side here.
As well as switching, I like to incorporate other elements into my submissive sessions – that means we can include vanilla intimacy, fetish, and coaching. As an experienced player, I know that having dominant fantasies doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll feel confident leading a scene. Learning to be a Master or Mistress takes some practice. I can take you by the hand and show you exactly how I like to be touched, spanked, and spoken to.