Imagine the powerful woman who stands over you in your fantasies – who is she? Is she an aggressive and sadistic femme fatale? Is she laughing at you? Perhaps she’s a stern and formal disciplinarian – a boss or colleague? She might have a loving, caring, nurturing side, looking to gently correct rather than torture you. She could be having a lot of fun toying with you, or taking your formal punishment very, very seriously. She might be furious, aroused, playful, strict… out of reach, or intoxicatingly close. She uses glamour and eroticism to overpower you. She is using you for her own pleasure.
I can fulfil all these fantasies and more. I’m a born roleplayer (see my reviews) with a passion for dressing the part. I have several wardrobes bursting full of clothes and thousands of ideas in my head about how to create your perfect fantasy scene. Crafting these scenarios is my perverted private theatre, and I adore it.
However, for me, dominating you is about far more than instantly becoming Mistress Alex by donning a rubber dress and grabbing a whip. Domination is intrinsically linked to my own female desire to feel in control. I seek sexually charged encounters where I have firmly and deliciously corrected you, or I have robbed you of your power violently, or sweetly requested that you drop to your knees and offer it willingly . I want to experience your helplessness, your embarrassment, your struggle, your stress and your abandon. I want to be the best fuck you’ve ever had, and be a real bitch about it. I want to help you to be a good boy.
Not Your Ordinary Domme
My years of experience as a professional submissive have equipped me with a level of versatility you are unlikely to see elsewhere – I can play any role, and I’m passionate about matching your fantasies in every detail.
Depending on the requirements of each and every session, I can switch, and indulge my submissive or masochistic sides in our scene. This is unusual for professional dominants, but is intrinsic to my experience of power play. Engaging in submissive roles teaches me to be a more intuitive dominant (what I call a ‘switch sensibility’) and moreover, I find it incredibly hot to swap power around. Read more about my submissive side here.
As well as switching, I choose to integrate full erotic contact into my sessions where appropriate, and see no reason why FemDom should automatically be synonymous with female chasteness and untouchability. (Though playing with denial can be very sexy!)
Ultimately I’m less interested in rigid, traditional notions of ‘true’ domination, which I sometimes find outdated and limiting. I take a holistic approach to crafting the perfect BDSM moment: which means that as well as switch dynamics, we can include vanilla intimacy, fetish play, and coaching.
Perhaps you’re interested in another fantasy?